I have read somewhere that occasional usage of sex toys can improve your marriage. It was said in the study that it helps to improve the diversity of sex life of the marital partners and in by that it improves the quality of the marriage. In the study the main question was what the main problem in your marriage is. The most people interview said that the biggest problem in the marriage was that the sex life was getting boring and because of that we started drifting apart. So experimenting with various sex toys will in fact save your marriage.

Not only that but it can also save your relationship because people are always intrigued by new things to do.  This is because of the power of the sex toys and their effect on your partner. It adds a bit of mystique to your personality, like you have a whole new side to you. It can lead to great passion.  When I say a totally new side to you I mean like you are this new mysterious person but not losing the part your partner fell in love to you. Be radical, try new stuff, it certainly can’t do any harm.

And don’t worry using sex toys don’t make you weird it just makes you alive. It means that you are ready and willing to try new stuff. It requires a lot of moral and inner strength. To set your mind so free that it explore even the strangest parts of your personality.

But sex toys are not just for saving relationships and marriages, no not at all. Some acts of love making wouldn’t be possible with ought proper sex toys. Like lesbian lovemaking for example. The fact that people need to understand is that sex toys are made to help and improve, and not the opposite.

I will never understand why people have such a fear and antagonism about these things.  Is it because they think of it like a taboo, or something that you try and move pass as you get older, I don’t know but sincerely I think that they are wrong. If there is a part of you that you did not discover and now there is a chance to do it wouldn’t you take it? That is the power of the male sex toys, they help you rediscover yourself.  I personally like role playing and my girlfriend and I often use various sex toys and play. Every day we set new boundaries and every day we feel closer to each other, like we now connect on many levels, instead of just one.  It’s a wonderful feeling. If we get married I know how to always rekindle the old flames. That is why I think that the studied is trying because I have seen it on my own example million times. Everybody should have his own bottom drawer or a box hidden away in the back of the closet. It’s like a booster pack for a relationship between two people.

The Pros and Cons of Sex Toys

Topic of sex toys is a never ending story for many reasons. Opinions are divided and people are usually divided into two groups.  The groups are those who like sex toys and those who don’t. The group of people who don’t like sex toys is mainly consisted of people who never tried it and think of it as some sort of taboo. In the shortage of better fraise they are ignorant and they have all of the qualities of a puritan. But for those who tried it it’s like a whole new dimension of sex life had opened.  Sex toys give you a chance to be whoever you want to be, to role-play like a boss in short. The story of sex toys goes way back. The Romans were the kinkiest nation in the ancient times and they were quite enthusiastic when it comes to using sex toys.  All through history people were using sex toys of some sort to discover pleasures that were in other way unknown to them.

The people who use sex toys will tell you that it’s a natural and integral part of their life and that now, after trying the toys they can no longer imagine their life with ought it. It doesn’t have to be something very kinky, maybe some stockings or a leather corset, or something like that. The whole point of sex toys is to bring all your fantasies to life, and to make you comfortable with them. Not to feel any shame in desiring it.

Many people deny themselves this kind of pleasure because of the worries of what others may think about them. I don’t think that people should worry so much about others and try to focus their effort on their selves and their happiness. If whipping your partner makes you and your partner happy then by all means, go for it. Stand up right now and go and purchase a whip and a bondage rope.

Buy two it you need them. Don’t let others dictate your life, especially your love life. I say this because what you do in the privacy of your bedroom is only your business and nobody’s other.  Whenever people ask me weather I use sex toys I say hell yea!

Of course then comes the strange look that in words can be described like “What the hell is wrong with this guy” and I just smile and day why don’t you try it, you might actually like it. Thankfully with the rapid rising of importance of internet in this modern day this topic is more and more talked about amongst people. One day I think people would be able to walk strait to a sex shop and with ought feeling any shame by whatever they want. No looking over your shoulder, no scanning around if your friends and relatives are looking, nothing. I just hope that I will be around when that day finally comes, just to look them in the face and say, told you so.  Love making is a beautiful thing and as such it should be experienced in all the ways possible.